Reflecting on early childhood experiences, I see how much my past shaped how I connected with others. The need to protect was like a reflex; I put up walls to keep from getting hurt, but they kept love out. Many struggle with this fear of abandonment, hoping that if we were “enough,” we wouldn’t be left.
Many people reevaluate their marriages in January. Survivors of CSA have a particularly difficult time leaving. There is support. If you’ve made the decision to leave, let me share my Family Transitions Guidelines to help you navigate the process with clarity and compassion. I’m here for you.
Setting boundaries is essential for everyone healing from childhood sexual abuse. Understanding the importance of boundaries and learning how to set them can significantly impact your healing journey. In this blog post, I’ll delve into the complexities of setting boundaries, the challenges you might face, and practical steps to help you start setting healthy boundaries in your life.
The first spiritual law states “everything is as it should be.” This concept aligns with the law of acceptance, which encourages embracing life as it is, as part of the larger theme of understanding the law of acceptance. It’s not easy to embrace this law when your spouse just lied to you about your financial […]
This Spiritual Law requires that you surrender to the circumstances of your life as they are. Ultimately, this is the “telling myself the truth” law. This is the way it is, now what? When you are able to surrender to what is, then you open yourself up to tons of possibilities that will change the […]
The Law of Divine Guidance says that you can trust the flow of your life. Whatever religion you practice will be honored and respected. I’ll support you in using whatever Divine Guidance you choose to help you find your own answers. Learning how to access your own inner wisdom will be key to integrating The […]
The Law of Responsibility will give you incredible freedom. It may seem counter-intuitive, but truly taking responsibility for yourself begins with recognizing that your choices shape the way your relationship looks and feels. In fact, practicing the law of responsibility helps you realize this more deeply. At the same time, many people point fingers at […]
How we interpret the events in our lives determines our experience, often aligning with key principles like the law of choice. How can this be true? Let me give you an example. My mother left when I was a teenager, she left without saying, “Goodbye.” I interpreted her leaving to mean that I was insignificant. […]
On Self-growth.com, Amanda Butler discusses this universal law in detail. The most powerful reason to forgive is for your own freedom. I’ve often heard Debbie Ford say, “forgiveness takes place in your heart, not your mind,” and it’s so true. This Spiritual Law often takes a little extra time to integrate, especially when deep betrayal […]
The Law of Creation frees you to consciously step out of self-imposed limitations and into the infinite wonder of what is possible for your life. When you have integrated the other six spiritual laws, you will be well on your way to a healed heart and in the perfect position to go for what you […]
I was talking with one of my clients in an off-scheduled call during my morning yoga routine. She was distraught with emotion. It got me thinking about the divorce and global warming connection, as we started making the analogy of how divorce can be described through weather patterns. The divorce and global warming connection explores […]
Understanding why connection matters after divorce is crucial for personal healing and growth. Many who find themselves struggling often ask why connection matters after divorce. What does the Research Show? Over a decade of research confirms two of my 7-key practices as necessary for living a happy and fulfilling life after divorce. Watch this TED […]
