End Relationship Patterns Keeping You Stuck
For women who’ve done the work and still attract emotionally unavailable partners or repeat relationship patterns, I guide them through the identity and relational shifts that break this cycle for good.
For Women Who Are:
- Ready to Evolve
- Tired of Old Patterns
- Done Accepting Crumbs
What Makes this Different:
- Identity-Level Shifts
- Relational Mastery
- Real-World Integration
You've built a powerful life, yet relationship patterns haven't shifted. You're not broken - you're living from an identity shaped by early trauma. When those patterns repeat, it's not because you haven't worked hard enough; it's because the deeper architecture hasn't changed. Real change happens when you recognize the trauma-shaped identity driving your choices and align with your true self instead. This work isn't about revisiting the past; it's about breaking the cycle for good. When you shift who you're being, emotionally unavailable partners fall away, your boundaries strengthen, and healthy love becomes possible. You're ready for more - and it starts here.
With a Master's in Social Work and 20 years of trauma-informed experience, I help high-achieving women unravel the identity patterns that early trauma leaves behind. I'm the author of FREEDOM from Shame: Trauma, Forgiveness, and Healing from Sexual Abuse and the host of from Trauma to True Love podcast. My work integrates trauma science, relational intelligence, and identity evolution to create lasting change
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Become the Woman Who No Longer Attracts Unavailable Partners

Real Change, No Spotlight
My clients value their privacy, but the changes are unmistakeable. Women who once felt stuck in repeating patterns now make choices from their true selves. They stop attracting emotionally unavailable partners, establish healthy boundaries, and create relationships that feel aligned, secure, and deeply nourishing. Their journey stays private, but the impact touches every area of their lives.

The Pattern Breakthrough Session
Your turning point for real and lasting change. In this 90-minute, $500 deep dive, you'll uncover the core pattern shaping your relationships, the belief driving it, and the identity shift required to break the cycle for good. This personal session gives you an expert map of your relational dynamics along with the clarity, direction, and next steps that align with the woman you are becoming.

Meet Your Mentor
I'm a relationship coach, MSW, author, and podcast host with over 20 years of experience mentoring women to break trauma-shaped patterns and create healthy, emotionally secure relationships. My work integrates identity evolution, trauma-informed insight, and real-world relational practice so you can live, love, and choose from your true self with clarity and confidence
How This Work is Different & And Why Patterns Finally Break
Most women who come to me have already spent years healing. They aren’t looking to revisit the past- they’re trying to understand why the patterns still persist.
My work focuses on the identity you’ve been living from – the version of you shaped by early experiences, unspoken beliefs, and relational dynamics that once felt necessary to survive.
That identity still influences how you choose, how you relate, and who you’re drawn to, even after significant growth. When you shift the identity behind the pattern, the pattern itself stops repeating. Your relationships change at their core, not through willpower, but through alignment with you were always meant to be.
This is not more healing. This is evolution.
Ready to See Your Patterns Clearly?
Reserve your Pattern Breakthrough Session, a 90-minute deep dive to reveal the identity and patterns shaping your relationships.
Phone: 415-390-6583
MyCoachingWorks at Gmail.com

