The Law of Responsibility will give you incredible freedom.
It may seem counter-intuitive, but truly taking responsibility for yourself begins with recognizing that your choices shape the way your relationship looks and feels. In fact, practicing the law of responsibility helps you realize this more deeply. At the same time, many people point fingers at their ex-partner, claiming it was entirely their fault, while others turn the blame inward. However, here’s one thing we know for sure: if you blame others, you are not taking responsibility for yourself, and you cannot heal or move on while seeing yourself as a victim.
What does blame sound like? Internal dialogue running in the background… As you reflect through the lens of the law of responsibility, does this scenario sound familiar?
It’s all my fault! I’m such a failure. If only I did it differently. If only I was prettier, nicer, sexier…. Blah, blah, blah…. He ruined my life. She betrayed me and now I’ll never trust again. Blah, blah, blah! Remember, embracing the law of responsibility means letting go of these unhelpful narratives.
Blaming does not serve you, and only indicates that you are in a victim mentality. With the laws of acceptance, surrender, and Divine guidance you will understand that taking responsibility is not about blaming…others or yourself. This is a key aspect championed by the law of responsibility.
Blaming does not work. It does not change your circumstances and it does not make you feel better or motivate you to make necessary changes. Blaming your ex-partner will not bring you the peace you’re looking for. The Law of Responsibility requires that you end the blame game and take responsibility for what you’ve created. For many, adopting this law is a challenging step, but I can help you take this important step in healing your heart. When you take responsibility, you acknowledge how powerful you are. Be assured that as you take responsibility for what you’ve created, you will not be asked to condone inappropriate behavior or justify abuse. This distinction is at the heart of the law of responsibility. That is NEVER okay!
Be honest with yourself! After all, the law of responsibility starts with self-honesty.
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In this process, I will ask you to be brutally honest and ruthlessly compassionate with yourself. By following this law, you will discover key choice points in your relationship that contributed to the necessity of a heart healing.</p>
Many people find that living by the law of responsibility is a powerful turning point in their life, for it is in taking responsibility that you reclaim your ability to consciously create.
Take responsibility—this is the foundation that this law stands upon.
Laura Silv
a is referring to teaching children to take responsibility for their choices. We could learn from her wisdom about the law of responsibility as it applies even to the youngest among us.
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