The Pattern Breakthrough Session
A private session to help you understand what’s been driving your choices and access the power to create something different.
Maybe you already know what you want.
You want to feel happy and at peace with yourself. You want relationships where you can be fully yourself, feel loved and connected, and trust what you know. And yet, despite everything you’ve learned and all the work you’ve done, you may still find yourself making choices that lead you back to experiences you don’t want.
You overgive. You stay too long. You silence yourself. You second-guess what you know. You work harder for love than you should have to. Or maybe your pattern shows up somewhere entirely different.
There’s a reason you keep finding yourself here.
And it may have much less to do with what’s wrong with you than with what you learned to believe about yourself.
This Isn't Therapy. It's a Turning Point.
The Pattern Breakthrough Session is a powerful, 75–90 minute private session designed to help you see what you haven’t been able to see on your own: the deeper meanings about yourself, others, and life that have been shaping your choices and creating the patterns that keep leading you somewhere you don’t want to go.
This session helps you begin to see:
- The pattern you keep repeating and what activates it.
- The meanings beneath it about yourself, others, and life.
- How those meanings have been shaping your choices without you realizing it.
- What becomes possible when you begin choosing from what's actually true about you.
When you see the pattern, you stop being run by it.
This Session Is For You If…
You know something needs to change, but understanding the problem hasn’t been enough. You may know what you want and even what you “should” do, yet you still find yourself making choices that lead to the same familiar patterns.
- You keep finding yourself in the same situations or patterns, even when you've promised yourself this time will be different.
- You've done therapy, coaching, or personal growth work and understand a lot about yourself, yet you don't have the life you desire.
- You overgive, accommodate, over-function, silence or lose yourself to avoid rejection.
- You keep attracting partners who can’t, or won't, show up fully for you.
- You second-guess yourself or struggle to trust wha you know or what you want.
- You find yourself trying to control other people or situations so you can feel safe, secure, or okay.
- You find yourself trying to control other people or situations so you can feel safe, secure, or okay.
- You're ready to stop letting the past unconsciously make your choices for you and take responsibility for what you choose now
Your Pattern, Named.
Your Power, Returned.
Your Core Relational Pattern
Clearly identify the pattern that keeps showing up in an area of your life that isn’t working the way you want it to.
What's Beneath the Pattern
Discover the meanings you made about yourself, others, and life, and how they shaped the identity you learned to live from.
Commit to One New Choice
Identify a new way of being and responding that reflects what’s actually true about you and gives you the power to create something different.
How the Session Works
The process is structured, grounded, and completely confidential.
- Identify where the pattern shows up: We start with an area of your life where you want something different.
- See what happens when it's activated: We slow things down so you can recognize what you feel, believe, and do when the pattern takes over.
- Discover the meaning beneath it: We uncover the meanings you made that help explain why the pattern makes sense.
- Recognize the identity you've been living from: You begin to see who you learned to be and how that identity has been shaping your choices.
- Access a new choice: We identify what's actually true about you and a new way of being or responding that will organically give you a different experience.
Preparing for Your Session
Complete your preparation before our session.
Your responses will allow us to make the most of our time together and go deeper, faster.
Choose one area of your life.
Choose an area where you keep experiencing something you don’t want or struggle to create what you do want.
Bring a recent example.
An example of what tends to always happen in the area you’ve chosen to focus on is what we need to work with.
Find a private, comfortable space.
You’ll want to create a space where you can be fully present and speak openly.
Come with curiosity rather than criticism.
We’re not looking for what’s wrong with you. We’re looking for what you haven’t been able to see yet.
Session Details
Investment: $497
What's Included:
- 75-90 minutes private Zoom session
- Personalized Pattern & Meaning Summary
- In-Dept pre-session reflection & assessment
- Personalized next-choice plan.
- Recording of your session on request
- Option to apply $497 investment toward private coaching package if you decide you want continued support
What Women Say After This Session
I came to the session feeling stuck and not knowing what to do. By the end of the session, I could see what had been getting in the way and, more importantly, what I could do next. I left feeling hopeful because I finally knew where to start.
— Barbara L.
I kept asking myself, ‘Why do I keep doing this when I know better?’
During the session, it finally made sense. I could see what was really going on and, for the first time, I believed I could have the life I want.
— Dania S.
After our session, I started making very different choices in dating. Instead of trying to make a relationship work, I paid attention to whether it was actually working for me. I’m now in a relationship where I feel loved, respected, and able to be myself. I thought it was too late for me.
— Amanda K.
When You've Done the Healing Work
Then You're Ready For a Pattern Breakthrough.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to look honestly at what’s happening and let someone help you discover what else is possible.
Phone: 415-390-6583
MyCoachingWorks at Gmail.com

